Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Temper Tantrum Troubles

When raising a family there are good days and there are bad days. Today would be one of those bad days.......

It started with a knock at my door right around the time the sun was peeking in through the bedroom window. I arose from my slumber to see who in their right mind would be interrupting my much needed sleep. To my surprise it was an employee from the electric company informing me they needed to inspect the poles in my yard. Really? Was it necessary to wake me at the break of dawn just to climb a pole to make sure it was working properly? I just nodded to the man and waved him off with a gigantic yawn.

I preceeded to climb back into bed when I heard an unfamiliar noise coming from my yard. What now? I jumped back out from under my big, brown, fuzzy blanket to go investigate what was going on. It was the electric company employee at the top of the pole with a chainsaw clearing branches away from the lines leading to my house. Now I was getting annoyed. Not only did he wake me, but now he was going to wake the twins.

Before I could find my shoes and make it out the front door to protest all the noise, I heard a faint "momma" come from the same room I just exited. Great! It was Thing 1 waking from the strange noise. When Thing 1 wakes, Thing 2 is usually not far behind. My day was really starting off on the right foot. NOT!

The twins both followed me out to the living room like little ducklings waddling after their momma duck. Both grumpy from being woke up a bit too early and saggy diapers begging to be changed, I decided that some Wiggly Waffle is just what they needed. I went on the great remote hunt that I find myself doing every morning so I could tune into PBS Sprout for a dose of silly songs and cartoons.

After diapers were changed and boys were dressed, it was time to find something they would both eat for breakfast. This is where it gets tricky having twins....one wants eggs while the other wants yogurt. That is until you give one eggs and the other yogurt. It always seems one wants what the other has.

Here comes tantrum #1&2.....

Thing 1 decided that he no longer wanted his eggs and wanted the yogurt Thing 2 had. He quickly swapped his eggs for the yogurt he wanted and it sent Thing 2 into a full blown tantrum. I tried to step in and give Thing 1 another yogurt, but he did not want the one I was offering, he wanted the one he had just swiped from his brother. Now not only was Thing 2 kicking and screaming, but now Thing 1 was in a full blown tantrum. It sounded like the world was coming to an end right in my kitchen. The yogurt they both wanted so badly went sailing through the air and with a splat landed right in the middle of the kitchen floor. With both boys screaming and crying I went into mommy mode; I scooped them both up and went to the table. We sat down together and had a talk about how we all needed to share. At this age I can't be sure of how much my boys comprehended what I was saying, but I at least was trying to instill good morals in them and eventually they would stick. When the last sniffle was gone and the last cry let out, we shared what little bit of the yogurt was left.

Breakfast finished and the boys quietly playing with their cars in the living room, it was now time for me to start my housework. I gathered up all the laundry strewn about my older kiddos' floors and tossed a quick load in the washer. Next I washed, dried and put the breakfast dishes away. With the wash going and the kitchen clean, it was time for what I like to call a little computer therapy. I checked my email to see if hubby had written, logged into Facebook and opened my blog. I spent the next half hour catching up on what was going on in the world outside.

LUNCHTIME! My favorite time of the day...it means time for the boys to eat then take a nap. Well on any normal day that is how things go in my household except for today. Neither of the boys wanted anything to do with eating what I made for them. In fact, Thing 1 decided it would be fun to see if his pb&j sandwich would fit in the vcr! What a mess that made!

Here comes tantrum #3.....

Thing 1 is not happy that mommy just cleaned up what he worked so hard at making a mess. Instant meltdown smack in the middle of the living room floor. This one I was just going to let him work out on his own. There comes a time when you just have to walk away and ignore the behavior and this was it.  After about 20 minutes of screaming and kicking the floor, he finally realized mommy wasn't paying any attention to his madness and he quickly stopped.

Patiently waiting for my middle child to arrive home from school, I packed the twins up and got ready to make the dreaded trip to Walmart. My daughter had so kindly left me little yellow sticky notes all over the house prior to her leaving for school reminding me she needed a flash drive for her school project. As soon as Bubba arrived, we headed out to pick up LouLou's item she needed for school.

Here comes tantrum #4.....

Have you ever noticed that when you want to get in and get out quick, it never happens? I was just going in for a few groceries and a flash drive. Bubba had other ideas. Apparently he assumed that just because we were going to the store it meant that he was going to get a toy. He begged and pleaded all the way through the store for that toy he just had to have. When actually he would play with it for about two days and never pick it up again. I even got, "mom, I promise to behave if you buy me this." Nope, I was sticking to my guns, he was not getting another toy. Well he threw such a fit in the check-out that I wanted to find the closest exit and quickly escape the pure embarrassment he just caused.

Safely at home, it was time for dinner., bath and bed. Thank goodness this day was finally over and I owe it all to the early wake up call from the electric company!

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